There are some stresses in your life that are well documented, recognised, and openly discussed.
And moving home is one of them.
I have approached this whole process with calmness, optimism, and hope that I would have a reasonable experience.
I was, until yesterday. It appears my buyers are starting to ‘dick around’, this lovely phrase sums it up beautifully for me today. What I mean by that is, they are questioning everything and accusing me of not being helpful! Interesting how a question I was asked, that I replied to with the words….I had not planned to… was interpreted into…..she says she will NOT. Now I am sure you are aware of how different they sound, one is negotiable and one statement is adamant, and incidentally, the upper case ‘NOT’ was how this was presented and written in an email from the buyer to my estate agent.
So now I am getting a little unsettled. Feeling a little pissed off and getting ready for a battle that actually I don’t want to have.
Either you love the house, want to buy it or you don’t.
Simple.
You knocked the asking price and therefore you’ve had your deal.
I am now aching across my shoulders and hating this moment in time.
Yet again I can feel a little battle about to commence. I don’t want to fight.
Divorce
Planning and now this.
No thanks, I’m done.
I want to move on and get on with my life.
So let’s see where we end up. No doubt this blog will record the whole story and the procrastination, conflict, upset, turmoil, and outcome. Let’s just hope it’s over fast, I haven’t got the steam, the energy or will for another fight.